Contest Winners!

Thanks to the many gracious women (and men) who submitted pictures of their laundry rooms and were unwittingly entered in to the “Cleaniest or Dirtiest Laundry Room” contest at church on Sunday.  Congrats to Debbie G. for having the cleanest laundry room and to Kristen S. for being the gracious winner of having the “dirtiest” laundry room!  (See pics below!)  desperate-house-lives1All of the pictures helped us to introduce the idea that we all have some stains in our lives.  For good or bad, we have been “stained” by our family of origen and that is reflected in our adulthood.  The Bible says, “Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it.” (Proverbs 22:6).  In other words, whatever “training” we received in our childhood shows up in our adult years.  And, if we don’t make some changes to eliminate the stains, our children are doomed to repeat the same cycle we are in as we pass the stains along to them.  It’s time to break the “stain cycle.”

If you missed Sunday’s message on removing family stains, be sure to listen to the podcast of the message by clicking here.  And don’t miss this coming Sunday as we continue to exam our “Desperate House Lives” and uncover the scandel that is rocking many homes led by kid CEO’s!

Debbie's Fancy Blue Machines!

Debbie's Fancy Blue Machines!

 

Our "dirtiest" laundry room winner!

Our "dirtiest" laundry room winner!

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Desperate House Lives

This coming Sunday (Easter), our church is kicking off a new series of messages called, “Desperate House Lives.”  Yes, it’s an obvious play off of the television show “Desperate House Wives.”  But here’s the point – our lives as desperate-house-livesindividuals or families can reach the point of desperation.  The dreams we had envisioned for our relationships or families have taken a turn for the worse.  What happened?  You happened, that’s what!  We are all a product of our upbringing.  For good, or for bad, we were all “stained” by the environment in which we were raised.  And whether we like it or not, these stains show through in our lives and relationships today.  Is there hope?  Can we change?  Absolutely.  Join us @ The Bridge over the next six weeks as we seek God’s wisdom in doing a little “house cleaning” and “stain removal.”  Here’s how will spend the six weeks:

  • Week 1 – Dirty Laundry
  • Week 2 – Kid CEO
  • Week 3 – Dynamic Communicators
  • Week 4 – The Bedroom
  • Week 5 – The Reality of Marriage (and how to turn it in to a Dream Marriage)
  • Week 6 – The Power of the Vow

Make an investment in yourself and your family (or future family) by being a part of this series.  Click here for directions to our church.  We meet at the Kid’s R Kid’s preschool in Morrisville at 10:30am every Sunday.

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Hockey Fights

Thanks to a good friend, I was able to enjoy the Carolina Hurricanes game last night.  I’ve never heard it so loud in the arena as last night when Rod Brind’Amour wristed a shot past the Ranger’s goalie to put the Canes up 4-2 in the third period.  The crowd was going nuts.  It was as if they really wanted to see the Canes players “go for blood.”  Everyone Hurricanes Blackhawks Hockeyseemed to be hoping for one more goal – just to rub it in to the Rangers.  The intensity was amazing, and I had this sense that the atmosphere was going to lead to a good hockey fight as the Rangers  would be frustrated by the imminent loss and raucous crowd.  Sure enough, there was a little scuffle that began between two players – one of which was a Ranger who had been constantly booed by the crowd every time he touched the puck.  The fight didn’t amount to much – just a little pushing and a couple of harmless jabs before the refs stepped in.  But isn’t it odd that hockey is the only sport where fighting is encouraged, and often goes unpunished?  The two players involved last night weren’t even penalized.  Had this been another sport, there probably would have been ejections, fines, suspensions, who knows?  How does hockey get away with it?  I must admit, I don’t mind it.  It seems tame enough, but there does seem to be a double standard going on.  And it’s a terrible example of sportsmanship and a terrible model for kids to follow in solving their disputes.  Yet why do I enjoy a hockey fight so much????

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CS Lewis Fans

For those of you who may be CS Lewis fans, I thought I’d let you know about a theatrical presentation of “The Screwtape Letters” that I read about in Christianity Today.  An actor by the name of Max McLean the-screwtape-letters-cslhas adapted and memorized the text to the story and is performing it in Chicago.  I can only hope that he’ll bring it south so that I might be able to go see it.  Click here for the website about the show and to see a preview video.

For those of you unfamiliar with Lewis’ Screwtape Letters, Screwtape is a experienced demon who is tasked with training a younger demon, Wormwood, in the ways of tempting mankind.  The story and training unfold through a series of letters whereas Screwtape instructs the somewhat inept young Wormwood.  It’s a fun read and should get your mind engaged as well.

The video preview of McLean’s theatre show didn’t really make me want to see the show, but I’d just have to go anyway out of sheer curiosity if it ever came nearby.

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Something To Celebrate

bowles-doleI am the absolute worst at celebrating.  I’m much to reserve.  I am the guy who goes to a UNC basketball game and fits right in with the “wine and cheese” crowd.  I don’t like to draw attention to myself.  I’m not vocal or demonstrative.  I don’t need a birthday party.  Which, unfortunately, translates into my inability to plan and celebrate for others when a celebration is due.  Celebration just doesn’t generally register on my radar.  It is something I need to change, and I’m working on it.

Anyway…I want to celebrate for Tim and Anna Walters who are in Russia, right now, in the final stages of the adoption process.  Lord willing, Tim and Anna will be back in less than 2 weeks with a brother and sister for Ty.  Whoo-who!  Praise God!  As many of you know, this adoption process is long, tedious, frustrating and expensive.  I am so glad they are nearing the light at the end of the tunnel for this process.  Many thanks to those of you who have prayed for them or with them, donated items or money, thrown baby showers, etc.  It is so great to be a part of a community of faith that supports each other in such a way.

Having said all that, I’d like to invite any of you to help me bless the Walters in at least one more way.  I’d love to get together a team to go over their house and cut the grass, trim the driveway, wash their cars and whatever other projects we can find to do.  If you’d like to help, let me know.  And let’s celebrate Mike style – with service!

Oh – and speaking of the “wine and cheese” crowd – how ’bout them Heels?  Go Tarheels!  Let’s win another NCAA Championship for Roy Williams!

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I Can’t Park Anymore

I can’t explain it, but I can’t park anymore.  I mean, I can’t park straight.  I’ve been noticing this for several weeks/months now.  I pull in.  Get out.  Walk away.  Turn back.  And the car is crooked.  On the line.  Over the line.  What’s wrong with me?  I use to pride myself on my driving and parking ability.  Not so much anymore.   Maybe it’s old age.  I turn 37 today.  And if you know me at all, I haven’t been able to remember anything for at least 5 years now.  I’m losing my mind and my ability to park.  Times change.  I adapt.  I record all appointments on the calendar in my phone.  It buzzes me and let’s me know when I’m about to forget something.  What a lifesaver!  So maybe I need to go back to a compact size car.  Could help my parking.

Anyway…speaking of changing as you grow older…I read this blog that talked about our values changing as we age.

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In The Zone

We just finished up a sermon series at church called “In The Zone.”  The series was primarily about money and possessions and how to use them in such a way as to honor God.  One of the coolest things I learned in preperation for the series was how God wants to open the “floodgates” of blessings on our lives if we will honor him with the way we manage our possessions.  God says in Malachi 3:10:

Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. Test me in this,” says the LORD Almighty, “and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that you will not have room enough for it.

Interestingly, this word, “floodgates” is only used a few times in the Bible.  The first time it was used was in the context of God’s judgment on the world through the flood in the time of Noah:

In the six hundredth year of Noah’s life, on the seventeenth day of the second month—on that day all the springs of the great deep burst forth, and the floodgates of the heavens were opened.  Genesis 7:11

In the same way that God opened the floodgates to pour out all the water for the flood, he wants to open the floodgates of blessing on our lives if we will honor him with our possessions/finances.  What a promise.  In these difficult economic times, we have all the more reason to put our trust in the promises of God with our financial lives.

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Mommy Blogging – Two Blogs to Read

As per usual, I am having bloggers block.  My mind is elsewhere.  And I’ve been so busy I haven’t had time to do some things I like to do like:

  1. Keep up with my wife’s blog.
  2. Keep up with my sis-in-law’s blog.

My buddy Fleegle couldn’t make our weekly breakfast this week (his 2 year old is sick and keeping them up a lot the last two nights), so I spent much of the time catching up on these two blogs.  I love reading both of their blogs because:

  1. They are about people I love
  2. Both of these beautiful women love God and are transparent about their lives and faith.

Living a life of faith is not always easy.  So reading their musings encourages me on the journey.  I hope you’ll check out their musings as well and find encouragement for your journey.

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Repeat Post

Just wanted to make sure people didn’t miss a chance to check out www.iamsecond.com.  I love stories of life change, and this site offers a dozens or more in video format.  It is so encouraging to hear people share real, heart stories, and how their lives were redeemed from the pits and utterly transformed.  The video below is a youtube.com version of the actual video from www.iamsecond.com.  Hope you have some time to sit and listen to a few of these.

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Wali na kuku and Food Shuttle

Courtney made Wali na Kuku for dinner tonight.  What is Wali na Kuku?  It is the other recipe I brought home with me from Tanzania.  “Wali” is rice and “kuku” is chicken.  For the most part, it is a rice, chicken, onion, and puree’d tomato soup.  Oh, and lots of salt!   It’s amazing.  Pics below.

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Also, over the weekend, some of us Bridgers volunteered at the Inter-faith Food Shuttle that is located near the Farmer’s Market.  We didn’t know exactly what we would be doing, but we ended up dismantling and washing many of the racks they store food on.  It was glamourous work, but needed.  It was great to serve.  The best part is just being able to connect with those who volunteered and “do life together.”

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Chris looks like he's dancing!

Chris looks like he's dancing!

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